In order to discover the main causes of stress we first need to define what stress is.
The word stress comes from Middle English stresse, hardship and partly from Old French estrece, narrowness, oppression. Definitions include:
Stress is often defined with our fight or flight mechanisms as in definition 2. We feel threatened by something (real or imagined) and our body goes into its fight or flight response. Of course many times fighting or running from the situation is either impossible or inappropriate so we have to find new ways of dealing with stress.
According to statistics, courtesy of the American Psychological Association (APA).
This chart details the main causes of stress and gives you a way to test how many of these stresses you have been under.
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1. Death of spouse/partner
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100
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2. Divorce
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73
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3. Separation from spouse/partner
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63
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4. Going to prison or similar
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65
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5. Death of close family member
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63
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6. Major personal illness/injury
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53
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7. Getting married
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50
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8. Redundancy/being fired.
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47
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9. Reconciliation with spouse/partner
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45
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10. Retirement from work
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45
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11. Major illness of family member
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44
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12. Pregnancy.
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40
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13. Sexual difficulties
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39
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14. New family member arriving (birth, parent(coming to
stay indefinitely, adoption)
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39
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15. Major work adjustment of any sort
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38
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16. Major change in financial status (up or down)
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37
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17. Close friend dies
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36
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18. Career change
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36
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19. Major change in number of arguments with
spouse/partner
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35
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20. Taking out a mortgage/heavy loan
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31
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21. Difficulty with mortgage repayments
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30
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22. Major change in work situation
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29
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23. Child leaving home
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29
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24. Trouble with in-laws
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29
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25. Outstanding personal success
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28
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26. Spouse/partner starting/leaving work
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26
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27. Starting or stopping formal education
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26
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28. Major change in living conditions
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25
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29. Change in personal routines
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24
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30. Trouble with the boss
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23
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31. Major change in work conditions
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20
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32. Moving house/home
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20
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33. Changing to a new school
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20
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34. Major change in leisure habits
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19
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35. Major change community activities
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19
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36. Major change in social activities
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18
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37. Taking out a small mortgage/loan
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17
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38. Major change in sleeping habits
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16
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39. Major change in number of family meetings
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15
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40. Major change in eating habits
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15
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41. Going on holiday
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13
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42. Christmas
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12
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43. Minor law violations (involving fines etc.)
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11
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RESULTS
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No Particular problems (Ordinary Stress)
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0-149
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Mild Crisis Level. 37% chance of problems
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150-199
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Moderate Crisis Level. 51% chance of problems
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200-299
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Major Crisis Level. 79% chance of problems
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300+
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Currently, I don’t personally feel that I am under a great deal of stress but when looked at these main causes of stress and took this test my score was much higher than I’d predicted. We don’t always look at things clearly when we’re stressed. And we don’t always realize how some situations may affect us more than we think.
If your score was 150 or over, I would encourage you to try some of our coping techniques and reach out to friends, family, doctors or other support systems that will help you alleviate some of the stress you may be feeling.
Informative Article on the Main Causes of Stress